Key Highlights
- Bunnie XO, 46, confirms relationship with 24-year-old reality star Wolf two months after finalizing divorce from rapper Jelly Roll.
- The couple faces significant online criticism over their 22-year age gap following a public Waffle House date documented on TikTok.
- Both Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll have publicly expressed support for each other’s new romantic chapters post-separation.
From Divorce to New Romance: Bunnie XO Moves On with Wolf
Podcaster and media personality Bunnie XO, born Alisa DeFord, has officially confirmed her relationship with Wolf, the 24-year-old star of the reality series Calabasas Confidential. The confirmation arrives roughly two months after the 46-year-old finalized her high-profile divorce from Grammy-nominated rapper Jelly Roll in May, ending a partnership that spanned just under a decade. The pair first ignited dating speculation over the Fourth of July weekend when they were photographed kissing at Goodnight Nashville, the singer’s own bar in Music City. At the time, Bunnie XO downplayed the romance during a July 10 episode of her Dumb Blonde podcast, insisting she was single and focused on “fun” rather than commitment.
Public Scrutiny Over 22-Year Age Gap
Despite the initial ambiguity, the relationship has since progressed to official status, drawing intense scrutiny across social media platforms. The backlash peaked after Bunnie XO shared a TikTok video of the couple enjoying a meal at Waffle House, which she captioned as his first visit to the chain. Comment sections quickly filled with critiques targeting the 22-year age difference. One user wrote, “You need a man not a boy…..JS.” Another joked, “And I also wanted to say, of course it’s his first time at Waffle House. He just got his drivers license and is allowed to stay out till 11 o’clock finally!” A third commenter argued, “I’m all for the girlies, But this is a creepy age gap for men, So its creepy this way too.”
Bunnie XO addressed the criticism directly in the comments, writing, “Hey guys, I’m having fun & he gave me my smile back,” followed by, “Ya girl is living her best life — let meeeee k thanks byeeeee.” Her defiant tone signals a refusal to conform to external expectations regarding age-appropriate dating.
Wolf and Jelly Roll Weigh In
For his part, Wolf has maintained a supportive but measured public stance. In an interview with TMZ conducted during the early rumor phase, he stated, “I just talked to her not too long ago—earlier today. I love Bunnie. She’s great. She’s got a lot going on right now but I’m here for her and she’s super sick.” He acknowledged the complexity of the timing, adding, “I’ve got love for the both of them. Obviously, they’ve got a lot going on right now.” Meanwhile, Jelly Roll has also moved on. Bunnie XO revealed on her podcast in June, “Has my husband started dating? Yes, he has—and we’re happy for him… And I’m excited to discover myself single.” The amicable public dynamic suggests a mutual commitment to co-parenting their shared narrative post-split.
The History: A Decade-Long Partnership
The relationship between Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll began in August 2015 at the Las Vegas Country Saloon, where the rapper was performing. She recounted the meeting in her book Bussin’ With The Boys and on a 2023 podcast episode: “When I met him, I tell everybody it’s the most f****** cliché s***, but literally my soul was like, ‘There you are,’… And he’s not my type. I’m not his type. He loves Taylor Swift. That’s his type.” Initially friends, the dynamic shifted in July 2016 when Jelly Roll returned to Las Vegas to film videos. Bunnie XO described the pivotal night candidly: “We’re like s*** faced drunk… I’m trying to get it up, get it in, get it on and get it out, and this guy was like, ‘What’s your five-year plan?'” She shared her goals, to which he replied, “OK, cool. Let’s do it.” The couple married in 2016 and navigated Jelly Roll’s rise to mainstream country-rap stardom together before citing “irreconcilable differences” in the 2024 divorce filing.
Why This Matters
Bunnie XO’s very public pivot from a decade-long marriage to a relationship with a significantly younger man highlights evolving conversations around age-gap relationships, particularly when the woman is the older partner. The intensity of the online backlash underscores persistent double standards in how celebrity romances are policed based on gender. Furthermore, the transparent, almost collaborative manner in which both Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll have navigated their separation—publicly wishing each other well while dating new people—offers a modern case study in conscious uncoupling within the influencer economy. As both parties leverage their personal lives for content across podcasts, reality TV, and social media, the blurring of private healing and public performance remains a central tension.
Frequently Asked Questions
- Who is Bunnie XO’s new boyfriend?
- Her new partner is Wolf, a 24-year-old reality television personality known for the series Calabasas Confidential.
- When did Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll divorce?
- The couple finalized their divorce in May 2024 after nearly ten years together, citing “irreconcilable differences” in court documents filed by Jelly Roll.
- How has Bunnie XO responded to criticism about the age gap?
- She has dismissed the criticism, commenting on TikTok that she is “having fun” and that Wolf “gave me my smile back,” declaring she is “living her best life.”
