Woman Rethinks Future With Boyfriend After He Chooses Friends Over Their Weekend Plans

Madeline Says Missed Gym Class Changed Her View of the Relationship

A TikTok video posted by @mothermadss has drawn 1.4 million views and 1,948 comments after its creator, Madeline, explained why she asked her boyfriend to leave her Los Angeles home. Madeline said she had viewed him as her future husband, but reconsidered their relationship after he chose to spend time with friends rather than attend a gym class they had planned to take together.

Madeline said she had no regrets about the decision. She added that the person she eventually marries would not abandon a date with her to spend time with friends.

A Restaurant Date Got Off to a Difficult Start

According to Madeline, the situation began the previous day. Her boyfriend lived out of state and had planned to drive to Los Angeles for a restaurant date. Madeline said she dressed up in a new outfit because he told her he had made reservations.

When they arrived, however, they discovered that no table had actually been booked and had to wait an hour to be seated. Madeline said she was annoyed but decided to continue with dinner. She also noticed that her boyfriend was not speaking much during the meal, although she assumed he was tired after the five-hour drive.

After they returned to her home, Madeline said he went directly to sleep. While that was not how she had expected the evening to end, she again attributed his behavior to exhaustion.

Boyfriend Missed the Solidcore Class

The next morning, Madeline said their only firm plan was a gym class she had booked for them later that afternoon. She expected them to spend time together beforehand, possibly hiking or playing tennis. Instead, her boyfriend told her he had already arranged to meet friends until it was time for the workout.

Madeline said she was confused because she had assumed they would spend the day together and had not previously heard about plans with his friends. He explained that his friends were looking forward to seeing him and promised to return in time for the class. Although Madeline was disappointed, she agreed.

Two hours before the class, Madeline sent him the address of the Solidcore studio. She said he did not respond, but she went to the class anyway. With only 10 minutes remaining before it began, he had still not arrived or contacted her, leading her to conclude that he was not coming.

Madeline said she enjoyed the Solidcore class but became increasingly angry when she still had not heard from him after it ended. She had used her own money to pay for his session. When she returned home, she tried calling him, but he did not answer.

About an hour later, Madeline said her boyfriend called and explained that he had lost track of time while with his friends because he had not been checking his phone. He reportedly said that, after finally checking the time, he realized he would be late for the class. Rather than contacting Madeline, he decided to continue spending time with his friends.

Madeline Says She Felt Disrespected

Madeline said she believed he should at least have sent a text once he knew he would miss the class. Although he described the situation as an honest mistake, she said she felt disrespected because he had not prioritized their plans or responded to her messages.

Her boyfriend reportedly told her that she was overreacting and said he would drive back to his home in San Francisco. Madeline then decided to kick him out and wished him a safe drive home.

She said the husband she envisions for herself would treat her better and that she did not regret ending the relationship.

Commenters Point to Possible Red Flags

Many commenters, including women who responded to the video, supported Madeline’s decision. Some said she may have overlooked warning signs, including the claim that her boyfriend had made a restaurant reservation when he had not.

One commenter speculated that his friends were an excuse to meet someone else. “He almost certainly was with another girl and wanted to use your place to crash since its too early to stay with her yet,” the commenter wrote.

Another commenter focused on the alleged reservation and wrote, “If he said he made a reservation and didn’t. . . That’s a lie and that’s a deal breaker. If he’s gonna lie about something that small, what else is he gonna lie about?”

A separate commenter also questioned his explanation about meeting friends. She wrote, “1. There were NO guys. 2. Never let a Man spend the night. 3. NEVER go on a Hike with a man.”

The Daily Dot was unable to independently verify the events described in the video. The account is based solely on TikTok creator @mothermadss’s description of her relationship experience.

Why This Matters

Madeline’s video reflects how personal relationship disputes can quickly become viral online, where viewers often assess a creator’s account and identify behavior they consider warning signs. In this case, the discussion centered on missed plans, communication, an alleged false restaurant reservation, and whether spending time with friends justified failing to attend a paid class.

The available account does not establish what happened beyond Madeline’s description, and no independent verification was reported. The primary outcome described is Madeline’s decision to end the relationship and ask her boyfriend to leave her Los Angeles home.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why did Madeline kick her boyfriend out?

Madeline said she asked him to leave after he missed their Solidcore class, failed to respond to her messages, and continued spending time with friends after realizing he would be late.

Where did Madeline’s boyfriend live?

Madeline said her boyfriend lived out of state and planned to drive from his home in San Francisco to Los Angeles.

Were the events independently verified?

No. The Daily Dot said it was unable to independently verify the events described in the TikTok video, which was based solely on @mothermadss’s account.