Key Highlights
- Joe Lycett confirms he is not gay and clarifies that public assumptions about his sexuality stem from his “camp” on-stage persona, revealing he has a long-term female partner and a son born in 2024.
- The comedian describes his off-stage personality as “very calm, thoughtful and peaceful,” contrasting sharply with his high-energy performance style.
- Lycett joins the cast of Celebrity Traitors Season 2, premiering 1 October on BBC One, alongside celebrities including Maya Jama, Leigh-Anne Pinnock, and Miranda Hart.
Lycett Addresses Sexuality Assumptions Sparked by Camp Persona
Comedian and television presenter Joe Lycett has directly addressed widespread public misconceptions regarding his sexuality, confirming that assumptions he is gay are incorrect. The 38-year-old, known for elaborate pranks and a flamboyant stage presence, revealed that the birth of his son with his female partner in 2024 prompted surprise from audiences who had conflated his performance persona with his private life. Speaking on Fearne Cotton’s Happy Place podcast, Lycett stated: “Lots of people were surprised when I had a child with a woman because they were like, ‘but you’re the gay man’.” He continued: “You know, I’ve never said that I’m gay because I’ve never been gay. But because I’m camp and I, you know, do innuendo and all those sorts of things that people have this idea of what that is.”
From Prank Suspicions to Hospital Confirmation
The announcement of his fatherhood was initially met with skepticism from some fans, who suspected the news might be another of Lycett’s signature stunts. Those doubts were dispelled when the comic publicly thanked staff at Birmingham Women’s Hospital for the “care and compassion” shown to his newborn son and his partner. In a new Q&A session ahead of the Celebrity Traitors launch, Lycett elaborated on the dichotomy between his public and private selves. “So, when I started doing stand-up, my on and off-stage persona were quite similar,” he said. “I showed off at parties because I wanted attention and then, gradually, as I got that attention through doing stand-up, I could calm down in real life.”
‘Very Calm, Thoughtful and Peaceful’ Off Stage
Describing his true temperament, Lycett offered a portrait of tranquility that contrasts with his television image. “When I’m not out on stage I’m very calm, thoughtful and peaceful. I think the comics know what I’m like on and off stage, but I think the others who, for the first time, will spend time with me not in ‘show mode’ might see that as suspicious,” he explained. He noted that fellow contestants on the upcoming BBC series—including Maya Jama, Leigh-Anne Pinnock, Miranda Hart, and Rob Beckett—may find his demeanor unexpected. “I definitely come across assumptions of ‘oh, he’s the gay comedian off the telly’ and I explain I’ve got a female partner and a son with said female partner. I’m really quite a tranquil individual when not in performance mode which may surprise some.” Reflecting on the interplay between character and self, he added on the podcast: “On stage, I kind of played on these things because they’re funny ultimately. But how much of that has filtered into what I actually am? And is the stage persona the same as me? And, you know, these things sort of oscillate a lot.”
Why Lycett Joined Celebrity Traitors
The comedian cited the quality of the format as his primary motivation for joining the hit BBC show, hosted by Claudia Winkleman. “The first series was just such phenomenally good television, and I didn’t think that it could be bettered, and then the celeb series came along,” Lycett said. “The last episode was beautiful. That first year I sent a DM on Twitter, which was not responded to, to Studio Lambert to ask if they could send me all the rushes. I just was so hit by it and wanted more. I am just thrilled to be part of the universe of The Traitors and to have been asked.” Regarding strategy, he admitted: “I have no idea how to play it. I don’t think you can particularly. I think you just have to let it play itself a little bit.”
Why This Matters
Joe Lycett’s candid discussion highlights the persistent tendency for audiences to equate a performer’s stylized presentation—particularly camp aesthetics and innuendo—with their authentic sexual orientation. His experience underscores a broader industry conversation about the pressure on LGBTQ+ coded entertainers to label themselves, and the skepticism faced when their private lives diverge from public expectation. As Celebrity Traitors prepares for its 1 October premiere on BBC One and BBC iPlayer, Lycett’s participation brings a high-profile figure whose recent personal revelations add a layer of public intrigue to the psychological gameplay central to the series.
Frequently Asked Questions
- Is Joe Lycett gay?
- No. Joe Lycett has explicitly stated, “I’ve never said that I’m gay because I’ve never been gay.” He has a long-term female partner and they welcomed a son in 2024.
- When does Celebrity Traitors Season 2 start?
- The new season premieres on Thursday, 1 October at 8pm on BBC One and BBC iPlayer.
- Who else is in the Celebrity Traitors cast?
- Joe Lycett will appear alongside celebrities including Maya Jama, Leigh-Anne Pinnock, Miranda Hart, and Rob Beckett, with Claudia Winkleman returning as host.

